As children growing up, we often told ourselves that “life is not fair.”  In hindsight, we come to realize that life was not fair in that particular instance - most likely because we could not have what we so desired – an item to provide immediate and short-term joy, permission to stay out late with friends, the chance to be with our “one true love.”  I cannot single-handedly change the mindset of youth, nor do I want to, because it is this selfish ideology that “life is not fair,” which children must learn to overcome to transform into self-less contributors of society.  Unfortunately, some of us will not come to this realization until much later than others, while some still may never stop believing that “life is not fair.”

It is a fact, that there are many people facing countless hardships, including hunger, homelessness, abuse, and/or illness.  I am speaking to the physical and mental youth of our world.  Count your blessings in life and beyond it.  For many of us, the everyday “stress” of our lives is neither debilitating nor does it render us helpless in the greater scheme of things.  Utilize the life and opportunity that has been given to you and contribute to your community, for when you become a full fledged adult, what can you say would have been your contribution to humanity?

To my HIV-positive youth; overcoming the belief that “life is not fair,” may be one of the hardest challenges for you (in addition to waking up with migraines, constant nausea and dizziness, fatigue, fear and depression) because changing your perception of life requires time.  Still, you can start today, right now.  You have a network of support, even if you have not found it yet.  There are several resources available to you such as free drug prescriptions, subsidized rent, low cost medical care, support groups, and much more!  If you feel alone, know that you are not.  At the very least, you have me.

These are more than just mere words of encouragement – they are principles by which you can choose to live your life.  Do not view your days as numbered because fate only knows what lies ahead for you.  In the mean time, “hope” is your greatest tool and your greatest friend.  She can still offer you higher education, employment, a family, and love.  All YOU have to do is want it and work for it.

Adam Chang.  J.D. Candidate, Class of 2012.  University of Hawaii, William S. Richardson School of Law.